Attraction is not personal. A wise person said this to me recently. He is right, of course. We are either attracted to someone or we aren’t. It’s not personal. But boy does it often feel like it is. Imbalanced relationships are tough. When one person feels more than the other it can feel uncomfortable. If he’s just not that into you, might that change as he gets to know you better? When he sees your playful side? When you allow yourself to be vulnerable? Or is this just the w